Sometimes I get caught up on/stuck on a thought.
Ideas, concepts that seem simple but that are really truly larger than life. One of the concepts I often get caught up on is what motivates people to do intentionally hurtful things…the Libra in me also wants to work to understand/accept the whys behind why some folks are intentionally hurtful–but that’s a journey to explore at another moment. I think as a parent I have become ever more consumed with this thought of why people are intentionally hurtful because I don’t want to raise a human that does intentionally hurtful things.
When I took the time to think about it, I realized that as I have grown into myself I have found I am guided by several simple rules that ground me in working to not do intentionally hurtful things.
•Simply don’t take actions that aim to intentionally make someone else feel bad.
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•Consider others as you consider yourself–about everything; practice sympathy.
Try not to be rude.
•I say “try” because if you say “don’t be rude” then it implies that the act was intentional; which, if it is then it is actually being mean. If you say “try not to be rude” it may imply that the act was accidental, therefore unintentional, because being rude is an unintended ill-mannered action.These are the lessons I work to teach my kid; these are the lessons I wish all parents would teach their kids–among a myriad of other things.
And as this period of thought subsides, for the moment, it ends with the thoughts of intent and motivation. If someone intentionally is mean or selfish (or rude) we should ask what was the intent as well as what the motivation was that inspired the intentionally mean or selfish action.
Because everything is really about intent and motivation.
