We sat around working on what I recall to be our fourth bottle of wine and the conversation shifted to fashion. Surprise, surprise several non-heterosexual men talking about fashion and its definition–oh wait I suppose straight men are said to talk about those things these days.

So, who defines fashion?

I define my fashion. I mean a person should define their individual style and feel as if it is fashionable for the individual.

However, it seems fashion is defined by costume styles which are popular and present in a common level. Remember plaid? Or now it is all about the scarf!

There is the keep you warm scarf, the hipster scarf, the throw scarf, the…well there are so many–just like plaid!

There is only one way to wear a scarf…the right way…your way.