i have finally decided that whenever one starts dating there is an invisible sign that goes up (sorta like the batman signal) and everyone around the world is notified of your status. while i am glad folks must sense i am not on the market for dating i wonder what the rationale is for the exes coming out of the woodwork or the ones you wished would have spoken to you before now find you the most interesting character alive.

someone said its the sense of self-confidence and a relaxing of your guard…honestly i disagree. i dont think my demeanor changes when i am in a relationship…well actually i think i become more aware of the stares, the shoulder touches, the mis-steps that lead to bumps.